Abbey Wellman: Influencer’s divorce party goes viral as friends react to ex-husband’s alleged behaviour

An influencer’s divorce party is going viral on TikTok after she displayed a list of her ex-husband’s apparently shocking behaviour for her guests to see.

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A woman’s divorce party is going viral on TikTok after she displayed a list of her ex-husband’s apparently shocking behaviour for her guests to see.
A woman’s divorce party is going viral on TikTok after she displayed a list of her ex-husband’s apparently shocking behaviour for her guests to see. Credit: @abbeywellman/Instagram, TikTok

A woman’s divorce party is going viral on TikTok after she displayed a list of her ex-husband’s apparently shocking behaviour for her guests to see.

Influencer Abbey Wellman posted a video of a group of her friends reading a board titled ‘Abbey’s Divorce Party’, featuring a list of the “10 worst things” her ex-husband allegedly did during their marriage.

The board’s content is not visible, but Abbey’s friends are filmed reacting to the list with shock and even horror.

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One woman turns to the camera looking horrified with her jaw on the floor, while another man was forced to cover his mouth after taking in the list.

The video immediately went viral, garnering 32.5 million views and 5.1 million likes at time of publication.

More than 44,700 people flooded Abbey’s comment section, begging to find out what the list said to generate such shocked reactions.

“I wanna know what it sayssssss,” one person said.

The board’s content is not visible, but Abbey’s friends are filmed reacting to the list with shock and even horror. 
The board’s content is not visible, but Abbey’s friends are filmed reacting to the list with shock and even horror.  Credit: @abbeywellman

“Would you like to share the board with the rest of the class?” another said.

“My FOMO is horrendous,” another said.

The video immediately went viral, garnering 32.5 million views and 5.1 million likes at time of publication. 
The video immediately went viral, garnering 32.5 million views and 5.1 million likes at time of publication.  Credit: @abbeywellman

“I’ve checked your profile and there isn’t a separate tik tok with the board HELLO??????,” a fourth person said.

Abbey’s follow-up video.
Abbey’s follow-up video. Credit: @abbeywellman

Despite the internet’s collective fear of missing out, it appears Abbey has been prevented from posting the list due to fear of legal retribution.

The US influencer posted another video after the list went viral, captioned: “When I had a divorce party and it went viral but I’m legally not allowed to post the board”.

“Hey so, I actually forgot about this and now I’m irritated all over again 😭,” one person said.

“We NEED to know what these reactions were all about…,” another person said.

“I’ll sign a NDA just to know lol,” a third said.

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