Friend says Tess Crosley endures ‘endless harassment’ over Lachie Neale marriage split

A personal friend of a woman embroiled in the break-up of AFL star Lachie Neale and his wife has described the intense harassment she has faced.

David Hannant
NewsWire
Tess Crosley posted a video to TikTok of Lachie and Jules Neale.

The mother embroiled in the marriage breakdown of an AFL star has faced “unconscionable” abuse and harassment since being thrust into the public eye, a publicist claims.

Tess Crosley has found herself the subject of intense media speculation after being linked with the marriage breakdown of Brisbane Lions midfielder Lachie Neale and his wife, Jules Neale.

But now, a publicist with a personal link to Ms Crosley has described the emotional toll the new-found status is having on her, alleging she has faced endless harassment at the hands of the media.

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In a post published on LinkedIn – and shared with media outlets – Lyall Mercer called for focus to now be moved away from Ms Crosley.

He wrote: “I do not represent Tess Crosley or her family in an official capacity, and I am not being paid by any party. I simply know Tess on a personal level and have seen the effects of recent media coverage on her.

Tess Crosley has been linked to the breakdown of AFL star Lachie Neale’s marriage. Picture Supplied
Tess Crosley has been linked to the breakdown of AFL star Lachie Neale’s marriage. Picture Supplied Credit: Supplied Source Unknown
A friend says the media scrutiny has been unfair. Picture: Instagram
A friend says the media scrutiny has been unfair. Instagram Credit: Supplied
And she has received threats. Picture: Supplied
And she has received threats. Supplied Credit: Supplied Source Unknown

“More than three months ago, the news broke of a social media post from Jules Neal about her marriage, which put the spotlight not only on her family but on Tess.

“No one except those concerned know the details or facts behind what was said.

“Yet since that time, Tess has endured endless media coverage of her personal life that has resulted in ongoing social media vitriol, threats to her safety, and invasive public commentary.”

The Crosleys and the Neales in happier times.
The Crosleys and the Neales in happier times. Credit: Supplied

Mr Mercer, who has worked as a public relations strategist for MPs, sailor Laura Dekker and faith leaders, added that his friend was aware of and supported his message.

“This has – and continues to take – a significant emotional toll on her wellbeing and, by extension of that, her family,” he said.

“Tess is not a public figure and it is unconscionable that photographers paid by media outlets have followed her for more than three months as she goes about her daily life at home, visiting the gym, shopping and even driving from Brisbane to the Gold Coast while visiting her family.

Jules Neale (pictured) and Crosley were close friends. Picture: Mark Stewart
Jules Neale (pictured) and Crosley were close friends. Mark Stewart Credit: News Corp Australia

“There is no public interest in pictures of her on the beach with her son or dropping off her son to his father.

“Each media article is not only a gross invasion of her privacy but a trigger for more personal hatred and threats towards her on social media, leaving her more vulnerable.”

Mr Mercer added that he believed the coverage had “crossed the line into harassment and bullying”.

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